Sarah Haddow

Psychotherapist

I am an experienced Body-Oriented Psychotherapist specialising in trauma, attachment and the connection between mind and body.

Sometimes we understand what is happening in our lives, but still feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected or unable to change how we respond. Our bodies can hold experiences in ways that words alone cannot always reach.

My approach brings together somatic, embodied, humanistic and relational psychotherapy, creating space to slow down, become curious about what is happening within you, and develop a deeper understanding of yourself.

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My Experience

I am an experienced Body-Oriented Psychotherapist, trained to Master’s degree level in Dance Movement Psychotherapy, graduating from Canterbury Christ Church University. My practice is grounded in movement, somatic and embodied approaches, alongside person-centred, humanistic and creative modalities.

I have worked within the wellbeing and psychotherapy field for many years, developing a particular interest in trauma, attachment, relationships and the connection between mind and body. My experience includes working with adults who have experienced trauma, difficult relationships, attachment wounds, anxiety, loss, low self-worth and periods of significant change or overwhelm.

My earlier professional experience included working therapeutically with mothers experiencing postnatal depression. This work gave me a strong foundation in understanding attachment, relational experiences and the impact of trauma. Over time, my practice has expanded and developed, with my work now primarily focused on adults and the ways earlier experiences can continue to shape how we experience ourselves, our bodies and our relationships.

I work from the understanding that trauma is not always something we can fully explain through words. Experiences can become held within the body — through tension, anxiety, numbness, disconnection, hypervigilance, exhaustion, changes in breathing, movement or a sense of being overwhelmed. Sometimes we may understand intellectually that something happened in the past, while our body continues to respond as though it is happening in the present.

My approach is about being curious about these responses without forcing them to change. Together, we can begin to notice what happens within your body, your emotions and your relationships, developing a greater understanding of the ways you have learned to protect yourself. I am interested in the meaning behind these responses and in supporting you to discover whether there are new possibilities available to you now.

My approach is relational, collaborative and trauma-informed. I draw upon person-centred and humanistic principles, alongside movement and embodied psychotherapy. I believe that the therapeutic relationship itself can become an important part of the work. Being met with curiosity, compassion and attunement can offer a different experience of relationship — one where you do not have to perform, please, explain or have everything figured out.

I work with the whole person rather than seeing thoughts, emotions and the body as separate. We might explore sensations, movement, breath, emotions, impulses, memories or relational patterns, always at a pace that feels manageable for you.

I believe that therapy is a process of developing self-awareness and self-trust. Rather than seeing myself as someone who has all the answers, I work alongside you to explore your experience and support you in becoming more connected to your own knowledge and understanding. You are the expert in your own experience.

My own commitment to personal therapy, supervision and continued professional development is an important part of my practice.

Ultimately, I see therapy as an opportunity to develop a deeper relationship with yourself — to understand your patterns, listen to your body, recognise your needs and develop greater choice in how you respond to yourself and the world around you.

You do not need to know exactly what is wrong or have the right words before coming to therapy. We can begin with where you are, together.

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Offered Services

Psychotherapy for adults

I offer long-term individual psychotherapy, working collaboratively and relationally. My approach integrates humanistic, somatic and embodied practices, including talking therapy, body awareness, breath, movement, mindfulness and non-verbal communication.

I work with the whole person, exploring the connection between body, emotions, thoughts, relationships and lived experience, creating space to develop greater self-awareness, connection and choice.

Workshops & Group Work

I offer one-off and short-term workshops for groups, organisations and businesses, using practical and experiential approaches to develop self-awareness, reflective practice, communication and positive, meaningful relationships.

Workshops can be tailored to the needs of your organisation and may incorporate embodied and somatic practices, reflection, mindfulness, movement and creative approaches to support wellbeing, connection and relational skills within teams.

Please get in touch to discuss your requirements, or book a free consultation to explore how I can support your group or organisation.

 

 

One-Off Reflective Sessions

Sometimes you don’t need ongoing therapy — you may simply need a space to pause, reflect and make sense of where you are.

I offer one-off reflective sessions for anyone who would value a confidential, supportive space to explore a particular situation, relationship, decision, transition or feeling.

Using a humanistic, somatic and embodied approach, we can slow things down, listen to what is happening for you and create space for greater clarity and self-understanding.

A single session can offer an opportunity to step back, reconnect with yourself and consider what you may need next.

Why Therapy?

How can it help?

Why Therapy?

You may be wondering, “Why therapy, and why now?”

There are many reasons we might seek therapy. Sometimes life feels overwhelming, relationships become difficult, or something from the past begins to affect us in ways we don’t fully understand. Sometimes there is simply a sense that something needs to change, but we are not quite sure what.

I work somatically, exploring the connection between mind and body and how our experiences can be held and communicated through both. Our bodies can sometimes tell us something before we have the words to explain it — through sensations, tension, breath, movement, emotions or a sense of disconnection.

I see the body as an often untapped resource within psychotherapy and personal development. By becoming curious about what is happening within you, we can begin to develop greater self-awareness and understanding.

Beginning therapy can feel like a big step. You don’t need to have all the answers or know exactly where to begin. We can start with where you are and take the process at a pace that feels right for you.

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Some reasons you might be considering therapy

  • You feel that talking alone hasn’t quite reached what you’re experiencing, and you’re looking for a different way of working.
  • You feel stuck, numb, disconnected or depleted, and want to understand what is happening beneath the surface.
  • You want to develop a greater sense of choice and control in how you respond to your emotions and experiences.
  • You feel overwhelmed by your emotions or find yourself caught in patterns that are difficult to change.
  • You are struggling with the impact of past experiences, trauma or attachment relationships.
  • You want to feel more connected to yourself, your body and your relationships.
  • You are feeling very unhappy or low and are struggling to find joy or meaning in everyday life.
  • You want to dedicate some time to yourself, exploring parts of your life or yourself that feel unresolved.
  • You feel stuck and want to understand what might be keeping you there or making it difficult to move forward.
  • You know you have experienced trauma and feel that now might be the right time to gently explore its impact.
  • You have tried talking about things but feel that something deeper needs attention, perhaps beyond words.
  • You have read about the relationship between the body and trauma and are curious about exploring a more embodied way of working.
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Testimonials

“I cannot express how much Sarah has helped me! Through our sessions, I have discovered a genuine sense of happiness that I never thought was possible. What I appreciate most about Sarah is that she creates a safe and non-judgmental space that makes me feel completely free to express myself. Her guidance through my troubles has been invaluable, and I feel blessed to have met such a wonderful person. I highly recommend Sarah to anyone who needs help, whether it’s just a little or a lot, because she has truly made my life better.”

Adam 

“Working with Sarah has been a transformative experience. She has created a safe and nurturing environment where I feel comfortable being vulnerable and expressing myself. Through our sessions, I have gained a deeper understanding of myself and others, and have worked through issues that I didn’t even realize I was carrying. I feel so much lighter and freer after each session, and I am grateful for the profound impact Sarah has had on my life. I highly recommend her to anyone who is looking for a compassionate and knowledgeable therapist.”

Mila

“Sarah is an exceptional therapist who has helped me tremendously over the past few years. She is grounded, present, and has a wealth of wisdom to share. What sets her apart is her ability to adapt to her clients’ needs and preferences. Whether it’s taking a walk in nature or sitting down for a cup of tea, Sarah always meets me where I am and creates a safe and comfortable space for me to explore my emotions and thoughts. Her sensitivity and awareness around body trauma have been invaluable, and I appreciate her willingness to listen and support me.”

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